Marriage as a significant practice in Judaism: HSC Studies of Religion
“Significant practices in the life of adherents: describe ONE significant practice within Judaism drawn from death and mourning, marriage, synagogue services; demonstrate how this practice expresses the beliefs of Judaism; analyse the significance of this practice for both the individual and the Jewish community”
Jewish marriage is kiddushin, "sanctification": the couple are consecrated to each other before God. Its sources are the Torah ("It is not good for the Human to be alone", Genesis 2:18; "clings to his wife, so that they become one flesh", 2:24; "Be fertile and increase", 1:28) and the Mishnah (Kiddushin 1:1 on betrothal). The wedding includes signing the ketubah (marriage contract), the bedeken (veiling, recalling Rebekah, Genesis 24:65), the ceremony under the chuppah (canopy symbolising the new home), blessings over wine, the ring given with the words "you are consecrated to me with this ring according to the law of Moses and Israel", reading the ketubah, the sheva brachot (seven blessings), the breaking of the glass (remembering Jerusalem, Psalm 137:5-6), yichud (time alone) and a joyful celebration. It expresses covenant (NESA 2025: "a divine partnership, symbolising the Covenantal relationship"; Hosea 2:21), creation, holiness, Torah law, the Jewish home and family and hope for Zion. It is significant for the individual (companionship, holiness, a new life stage) and the community (continuity, witnesses and minyan, shared joy). Orthodox and Progressive Jews differ on egalitarian rites, interfaith and same-sex marriage and divorce (the get and the agunah problem).
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What this dot point is asking
The Judaism depth study asks you to choose ONE significant practice from death and mourning, marriage, synagogue services and to:
- Describe the practice.
- Demonstrate how it expresses the beliefs of Judaism.
- Analyse its significance for both the individual and the Jewish community.
This page covers marriage. NESA's sample answers used marriage in 2020, 2022 and 2025, so it is a well-supported choice. Describe the ceremony in its correct order, link each element to a belief with a source from the Tanakh, Mishnah or Talmud, and show how Orthodox and Progressive Jews differ. The Jewish significant practice was examined every year from 2020 to 2025.
Texts (JPS gender-sensitive edition): Genesis 1:28 ("Be fertile and increase"); 2:18 ("It is not good for the Human to be alone"); 2:24 ("one flesh"); 24:65 (Rebekah's veil); Psalm 137:5-6 ("If I forget you, O Jerusalem"); Jeremiah 33:10-11 ("the voice of bridegroom and bride"); Hosea 2:21-22 ("I will espouse you forever"); Malachi 2:14 ("covenanted spouse"); Deuteronomy 24:1 (divorce). Rabbinic: Mishnah Kiddushin 1:1 (three ways of betrothal); Talmud Ketubot 7b to 8a (seven blessings); Berakhot 31a (a cup broken at a wedding). Order: preparation (mikveh, fasting) ; ketubah signing ; bedeken ; chuppah ; erusin blessings and ring ; ketubah read ; sheva brachot ; glass ; yichud ; seudah and seven days of sheva brachot. Words: kiddushin, erusin, nissuin, ketubah, chuppah, bedeken, sheva brachot, yichud, mazal tov, get, agunah.
The answer
Marriage in Jewish teaching
- Companionship. "The ETERNAL God said, 'It is not good for the Human to be alone; I will make a fitting counterpart for him'" (Genesis 2:18). "Hence a man leaves his father and mother and clings to his wife, so that they become one flesh" (2:24).
- Family. "Be fertile and increase" (Genesis 1:28) is regarded as the Torah's first commandment.
- Covenant. The prophets picture God's covenant with Israel as a marriage: "I will espouse you forever: I will espouse you with righteousness and justice, and with goodness and mercy" (Hosea 2:21); Malachi calls a wife "your partner and covenanted spouse" (2:14).
- Holiness. The rabbinic name for marriage, kiddushin, comes from kadosh (holy): the couple are set apart for each other. NESA's 2022 sample calls it "the most elevated status in Judaism, that of holiness and consecration to God".
- Law. The Mishnah opens tractate Kiddushin with the ways a marriage is made: "She is acquired through money, through a document, and through sexual intercourse" (Kiddushin 1:1); in practice the "money" is a ring and the "document" is the ketubah tradition.
The wedding, step by step
| Stage | What happens | Meaning |
|---|---|---|
| Preparation | The bride traditionally immerses in the mikveh; many couples fast on the wedding day and say confessional prayers | Purity; a new beginning like Yom Kippur |
| Ketubah signing | The marriage contract, traditionally in Aramaic, is signed by two witnesses | Legal and moral obligations; covenant |
| Bedeken | The groom veils the bride | Recalls Rebekah, who "took her veil and covered herself" (Genesis 24:65); the groom sees his bride before veiling her, unlike Jacob, who was deceived |
| Chuppah | The couple stand under a canopy on four poles, open on all sides; the bride may circle the groom (traditionally seven times) | The new home, open in hospitality like Abraham's tent |
| Erusin (betrothal) | Blessing over wine and the betrothal blessing; the couple drink | Joy and holiness |
| Ring | The groom places a plain ring on the bride's finger: "Behold, you are consecrated to me with this ring according to the law of Moses and Israel" | Kiddushin; the Mishnah's "money" |
| Reading the ketubah | Read aloud and given to the bride | Public commitment; protection of the wife |
| Nissuin: sheva brachot | Seven blessings over a second cup of wine | Creation, humanity in God's image, joy, restoration of Zion |
| Breaking the glass | The groom steps on a glass; guests shout "Mazal tov!" | Remembering the destroyed Temple (Psalm 137:5-6) |
| Yichud | The couple spend a few minutes alone | Beginning of life together |
| Seudah and sheva brachot week | A festive meal; the seven blessings are repeated at meals for a week | The community's shared joy |
The sheva brachot praise God for creating the fruit of the vine, creating all things for His glory, creating humanity, creating humanity in His image, gladdening Zion through her children, gladdening the couple as He gladdened the first couple in Eden, and creating joy and gladness, bride and groom, echoing Jeremiah's promise that "the voice of bridegroom and bride" will again be heard in Jerusalem (Jeremiah 33:11). The Talmud discusses these blessings (Ketubot 7b to 8a) and tells of a rabbi who broke a valuable cup at his son's wedding to temper the celebration (Berakhot 31a), one source cited for the custom of breaking a glass.
How marriage expresses the beliefs of Judaism
| Belief | How marriage expresses it | Evidence |
|---|---|---|
| Covenant | The ketubah and vows create a binding, witnessed partnership mirroring God's covenant with Israel | NESA 2025 and 2020 samples; Hosea 2:21; Malachi 2:14 |
| Creation and God as Creator | The sheva brachot praise God who created humanity in His image and the first couple in Eden | Genesis 1:27-28; 2:18-24 |
| Holiness (kedushah) | Kiddushin sanctifies love and sexuality | The betrothal formula |
| Torah law (halakhah) | The ceremony follows the Mishnah and Talmud: ring, witnesses, ketubah, blessings | Mishnah Kiddushin 1:1; Deuteronomy 4:5-6 (2020 stimulus) |
| The family and continuity | "Be fertile and increase"; the chuppah as the new home | Genesis 1:28; NESA 2022 |
| Memory and hope for Zion | Breaking the glass; blessings for Jerusalem | Psalm 137:5-6; Jeremiah 33:10-11 |
| Community | Witnesses, a minyan for the blessings, the mitzvah of rejoicing with bride and groom | The sheva brachot week |
Differences within Judaism
- Orthodox. Follows traditional halakhah: the groom gives the ring; the traditional ketubah; observant male witnesses; the bride's mikveh immersion; weddings only between two Jews; divorce by a get given by the husband. The agunah ("chained woman") problem, when a husband refuses a get, is a serious issue; many Orthodox communities now use prenuptial agreements to prevent it.
- Conservative (Masorti). Keeps traditional form but often adds egalitarian features, and has developed clauses in the ketubah to address the agunah problem.
- Progressive (Reform and Liberal). Egalitarian ceremonies with both partners giving rings; egalitarian ketubah texts; women rabbis and witnesses; many Progressive rabbis officiate at same-sex weddings, and some at interfaith weddings.
- Sephardi and Ashkenazi customs differ in details (for example the bedeken and circling are Ashkenazi customs).
Significance for the individual
- Fulfilling God's purpose. Companionship ("not good ... to be alone") and family ("be fertile and increase").
- Holiness in everyday life. Marriage sanctifies love and intimacy within a covenant.
- A new beginning. Many couples fast and pray on their wedding day, treating it as a day of forgiveness and fresh start.
- Security and mutual obligation. The ketubah protects the wife and sets out responsibilities, reflecting the NESA 2020 sample's point that the laws create "a structure through which adherents can express their faith".
Significance for the Jewish community
- Continuity. The Jewish home is where Shabbat, festivals, food laws and education are lived, so marriage transmits Judaism across generations (NESA 2022: "without family, there is no continuation of Jewish tradition").
- Shared joy and obligation. Gladdening the bride and groom is a mitzvah; a minyan is needed for the blessings, and the sheva brachot meals continue for a week.
- Memory. Every wedding recalls Jerusalem and the Temple, linking the couple to Jewish history.
- Community in Australia. Synagogues and rabbis guide couples through preparation and ceremony; debates about interfaith and same-sex marriage show the community negotiating tradition and change.
Evaluating the practice
- Strength. Jewish marriage combines law, symbolism and joy, and is shared in its core form across movements.
- Tension. The agunah problem, intermarriage and same-sex marriage divide opinion between movements.
- Adaptation. Egalitarian ketubot, prenuptial agreements and inclusive ceremonies show the practice developing within tradition.
Step 1: Name ONE belief with terminology
"Jews believe in the covenant (brit), the binding relationship of faithfulness between God and the people of Israel."
Step 2: Describe a specific part of the practice
"At a Jewish wedding the ketubah, a written marriage contract setting out the husband's obligations, is signed by witnesses and read aloud under the chuppah, and the groom gives the bride a ring 'according to the law of Moses and Israel'."
Step 3: Link them explicitly
"This binding, witnessed commitment mirrors God's covenant with Israel, which the prophets describe as a marriage ('I will espouse you forever', Hosea 2:21), so the ceremony expresses belief in covenant faithfulness."
- Wrong order
- Learn the sequence: ketubah, bedeken, chuppah, ring, ketubah read, seven blessings, glass, yichud.
- Explaining the glass only as good luck
- It recalls the destruction of the Temple and Jerusalem (Psalm 137:5-6).
- Treating all Jewish weddings as Orthodox
- Name the movement and show differences.
- Listing rituals without beliefs
- Link each rite to covenant, creation, holiness, law, family or Zion.
- Forgetting the community half
- Witnesses, minyan, continuity and shared joy all count.
In one sentence
Jewish marriage, kiddushin, in which the couple sign a ketubah, stand under the chuppah, exchange a ring "according to the law of Moses and Israel", receive the seven blessings and break a glass for Jerusalem, expresses covenant, creation, holiness, Torah law, family and hope for Zion, sanctifying the couple's life together and ensuring the continuity and shared joy of the Jewish community.
Try this
Q1. Outline the purpose of the ketubah. (3 marks)
- What the marker wants. A written contract, its obligations, the witnesses, and its link to covenant and protection of the wife.
Q2. Explain how the sheva brachot express Jewish beliefs. (4 marks)
- What the marker wants. Creation, humanity in God's image, joy, Zion and Jerusalem, with sources.
Q3. Analyse the significance of marriage for the Jewish community. (5 marks)
- What the marker wants. Continuity, shared joy and obligation, memory, differences between movements, and a judgement.
Exam-style questions
Questions in the style of NESA exam questions on this dot point, each with a worked answer. They are written by ExamExplained unless tagged "Past paper"; the year shows the paper a question is modelled on.
2025 HSC SoR II Q27 (a)Past paper3 marksDescribe how ONE significant practice expresses ONE belief of Judaism.Show worked answer →
Criteria (NESA 2025 marking guidelines, SoR I Q16(a), SoR II Q27(a)). 3: describes how ONE significant practice expresses ONE belief of Judaism, integrating relevant terminology. 2: outlines. 1: statements about Judaism.
NESA's sample answer used marriage. "Jewish marriage reflects the belief in the Covenant. Through the wedding vows and the Ketubah, the couple form a divine partnership, symbolising the Covenantal relationship between Yahweh and His people."
A fuller 3-mark answer.
- Belief. The covenant (brit) between God and Israel, a binding relationship of faithfulness.
- Practice. Before the ceremony the ketubah, a written marriage contract setting out the husband's obligations to his wife, is signed by witnesses and read under the chuppah; the groom gives the bride a ring saying she is consecrated to him "according to the law of Moses and Israel".
- Link. The binding, witnessed commitment mirrors God's covenant with Israel, which the prophets describe as a marriage: "I will espouse you forever" (Hosea 2:21, JPS).
Source: NESA, 2025 HSC Studies of Religion examination and marking guidelines.
2024 HSC SoR II Q27 (b)Past paper8 marksReligious practices are the sacred threads that weave together adherents' beliefs and connect them to the divine. With reference to this statement, explain how ONE of the following practices expresses the beliefs of Judaism: • Death and mourning • Marriage • Synagogue services.Show worked answer →
Criteria (NESA 2024 marking guidelines, SoR I Q16(b), SoR II Q27(b)). 8: a detailed and accurate explanation of how ONE significant practice expresses the beliefs of Judaism, integrating the statement effectively throughout, clear and relevant evidence, integrated terminology. 6 to 7: accurate explanation, statement integrated. 4 to 5: some explanation. 2 to 3: an outline. 1: general statements.
Plan (each rite as a thread).
- Kiddushin: holiness. The word means sanctification; the couple are set apart for each other before God.
- Ketubah: covenant and Torah law. A binding contract mirroring the covenant.
- Chuppah: the Jewish home. A canopy open on all sides, recalling Abraham's hospitality.
- Sheva brachot: creation and redemption. Blessings praising God as Creator of humanity and of joy, and praying for the restoration of Zion.
- Breaking the glass: memory of Jerusalem. "If I forget you, O Jerusalem" (Psalm 137:5).
- Community. A minyan and witnesses; the whole community rejoices with the couple.
Source: NESA, 2024 HSC Studies of Religion examination and marking guidelines.
2023 HSC SoR II Q27 (b)Past paper5 marksAnalyse the importance of ONE significant practice to the adherents of Judaism. In your answer, refer to ONE of the following: • death and mourning • marriage • synagogue services.Show worked answer →
Criteria (NESA 2023 marking guidelines, SoR I Q16(b), SoR II Q27(b)). 5: an accurate and detailed analysis of the importance of ONE practice, clear and relevant examples, integrated terminology. 4: accurate analysis. 3: an explanation. 2: general statements about the practice. 1: general statements about Judaism.
Plan (marriage).
- Fulfilling God's purpose. "It is not good for the Human to be alone" (Genesis 2:18); "Be fertile and increase" (Genesis 1:28).
- Holiness. Kiddushin sanctifies love and sexuality within a covenant.
- Continuity. The Jewish home and children transmit Judaism across generations.
- Community. Weddings gather the community, and the sheva brachot meals extend the celebration for a week.
- Analysis. Importance is shared across movements, but they differ on ketubah wording, egalitarian ceremonies, interfaith and same-sex marriage.
Source: NESA, 2023 HSC Studies of Religion examination and marking guidelines.
2022 HSC SoR II Q27 (b)Past paper6 marksExplain how ONE significant practice expresses the beliefs of Judaism. In your answer, refer to ONE of the following. • Death and mourning • Marriage • Synagogue servicesShow worked answer →
Criteria (NESA 2022 marking guidelines, SoR I Q16(b), SoR II Q27(b)). 6: a clear and detailed explanation of how ONE practice expresses the beliefs of Judaism, integrated terminology. 4 to 5: clear explanation with relevant evidence. 2 to 3: some explanation. 1: a general statement.
NESA's sample answer used marriage. It explained that the Talmud calls marriage kiddushin, "the most elevated status in Judaism, that of holiness and consecration to God"; that the ketubah "involves a promise to God and a promise between the couple", symbolic of the covenant at Sinai; that the chuppah "symbolises the marital home and the importance of family"; and that the blessings include forming a new family, "to go forth and multiply", because "without family, there is no continuation of Jewish tradition".
Source: NESA, 2022 HSC Studies of Religion examination and marking guidelines.
2021 HSC SoR II Q27 (a)Past paper3 marksOutline ONE action or ritual in Judaism that is drawn from ONE of the following significant practices. • Death and mourning • Marriage • Synagogue servicesShow worked answer →
Criteria (NESA 2021 marking guidelines, SoR I Q16(a), SoR II Q27(a)). 3: accurately outlines ONE action or ritual drawn from a significant practice. 2: briefly outlines. 1: a statement about a practice.
Model. At the end of the wedding ceremony under the chuppah, the groom (or in many egalitarian ceremonies both partners) breaks a glass by stepping on it, and guests call "Mazal tov!". The act recalls the destruction of the Temple in Jerusalem, so that even at the happiest moment Jews remember Jerusalem: "if I do not keep Jerusalem in memory even at my happiest hour" (Psalm 137:6, JPS).
Source: NESA, 2021 HSC Studies of Religion examination and marking guidelines.
2020 HSC SoR II Q27 (b)Past paper8 marksSee, I have imparted to you laws and rules . . . observe them faithfully, for that will be proof of your wisdom and discernment. (Deuteronomy 4:5-6) How does observance of the laws and rules express the beliefs of Judaism within ONE of the following significant practices? • Death and mourning • Marriage • Synagogue servicesShow worked answer →
Criteria (NESA 2020 marking guidelines, SoR I Q16(b), SoR II Q27(b)). 7 to 8: accurate and detailed information on how observance of the "laws and rules" expresses the beliefs of Judaism within ONE practice, clear and relevant evidence, integrated terminology. 5 to 6: accurate information with some evidence. 3 to 4: general statements. 1 to 2: statements about a practice.
NESA's sample answer used marriage. It said marriage is "the closest approximation of the idealised relationship between man and THE LORD", and that following the "laws and rules" "creates a structure through which adherents can express their faith": marriage is for love and companionship (Genesis 2:18 and 20 to 25); kiddushin with a token of little value (the Mishnah suggests a small coin; today usually a plain ring), given so there is "no possibility of deception"; the ketubah that "spells out the 'laws and rules'" and "echoes the Covenantal relationship"; the chuppah as the new home; the sheva brakhot "recognising THE LORD's role"; and a ceremony completed before the community.
Source: NESA, 2020 HSC Studies of Religion examination and marking guidelines.
Practice questions
Original practice questions graded from foundation to exam level, each with a full worked solution. Try them before revealing the solution.
foundation3 marksDescribe the chuppah ceremony in a Jewish wedding. (Original)Show worked solution →
Under the chuppah, a canopy held up by four poles and open on all sides, the rabbi recites blessings over wine and the couple drink. The groom places a ring on the bride's finger, saying, "Behold, you are consecrated to me with this ring according to the law of Moses and Israel". The ketubah is read aloud, the seven blessings (sheva brachot) are recited over a second cup of wine, and the ceremony ends with the breaking of a glass.
Marking: 1 for the chuppah, 1 for kiddushin with the ring, 1 for the ketubah, blessings or glass.
core5 marksDemonstrate how Jewish marriage expresses the belief in the covenant. (Original)Show worked solution →
- The belief
- God made a covenant (brit) with Abraham and with Israel at Sinai, a binding relationship of mutual faithfulness; the prophets describe it as a marriage (Hosea 2:21-22; the "covenanted spouse" of Malachi 2:14).
- In the practice
- The ketubah is a binding written covenant between husband and wife, witnessed and read publicly, as the Torah was given before all Israel (NESA 2020: it "echoes the Covenantal relationship"). The ring given "according to the law of Moses and Israel" places the marriage within the covenant law. The sheva brachot praise God who created humanity in His image and pray for the joy of Zion, linking the couple's covenant to God's covenant with the people.
- Result
- Faithfulness in marriage mirrors Israel's faithfulness to God.
Marking (Original): 5 for the belief, several elements linked, and texts.
core5 marksCompare Orthodox and Progressive Jewish weddings. (Original)Show worked solution →
- Shared
- Both use the chuppah, blessings over wine, a ring, a ketubah, the sheva brachot and the breaking of the glass, and see marriage as kiddushin (holiness).
- Orthodox
- The groom gives the ring and the bride accepts it; the traditional Aramaic ketubah sets out the husband's obligations; the bride often immerses in the mikveh beforehand; witnesses must be observant Jewish men; only marriages between two Jews are performed; divorce requires a get given by the husband.
- Progressive (Reform and Liberal)
- Egalitarian ceremonies in which both partners give rings and make promises; egalitarian ketubah texts; women serve as witnesses and rabbis; many Progressive rabbis officiate at same-sex weddings, and some at interfaith weddings.
Marking (Original): 5 for accurate features of both and explicit similarities and differences.
exam8 marksAnalyse the significance of marriage for both the individual and the Jewish community. (Original)Show worked solution →
- Individual
- Fulfils God's purpose that humans not be alone (Genesis 2:18) and the command to "be fertile and increase" (1:28); sanctifies love and sexuality (kiddushin); a new stage of life marked by the ketubah's commitments; many couples fast and pray on the wedding day, which is seen as a personal Yom Kippur of new beginnings.
- Community
- The Jewish home is the centre of Shabbat, festivals and education, so marriage transmits Judaism to the next generation (NESA 2022: "without family, there is no continuation of Jewish tradition"); the community witnesses and rejoices (the mitzvah of gladdening bride and groom); the breaking of the glass links each wedding to Jewish history.
- Analysis
- Marriage is significant across all movements, but debates about interfaith marriage, same-sex marriage and the agunah problem show how the practice both preserves tradition and responds to change, including in Australia's Jewish community.
Marking (Original): 8 for detailed significance at both levels with evidence, diversity and a judgement.
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Sources & how we know this
- Studies of Religion Stage 6 Syllabus (Judaism depth study) — NESA
- 2025 HSC Studies of Religion marking guidelines — NESA (2025)
- 2022 HSC Studies of Religion marking guidelines — NESA (2022)
- 2020 HSC Studies of Religion marking guidelines — NESA (2020)
- Mishnah Kiddushin 1:1 (William Davidson translation) — Sefaria
- Talmud, Berakhot 31a and Ketubot 7b to 8a (William Davidson translation) — Sefaria
- The JPS Tanakh: Gender-Sensitive Edition (Genesis 1:28, 2:18, 2:24, 24:65; Psalm 137:5-6; Hosea 2:21-22; Malachi 2:14) — Sefaria
- Studies of Religion I Stage 6 Syllabus (2009) — NESA
- Studies of Religion HSC exam papers — NESA